Okay, let's take a minute here to acknowledge that something is seriously wrong with this generation here!
What am I talking about, you ask? I am talking about the fact that the term "side chick" is becoming more and more popular over the last few months.
Let's back up. My rant started earlier today while I was checking facebook. I was just scrolling down my newsfeed, minding my own business, when I saw this picture:
What the actual...? I heard this phrase "side chick" a few months ago and I've just been ignoring it, but this just set me off. New to this phrase? Here, according to Urban Dictionary:
UM OKAY LET'S NOT!! Really? Is this really becoming a thing? Is this really becoming an acceptable thing?! WHY?!?! You do know that it's not right to cheat on your girl, right?!
Seriously, what the mother effing eff with this generation growing up here? What kind of households are these poor kids growing up in that they think that this is okay? Let me tell you something kids:
THIS IS NOT OKAY!!!
Girls, how can you put up with this? Is this what you think is normal? Is this what you think a normal, healthy relationship is like? It's not! If a guy really and truly cares for you, he will not have a "sidechick" because that's cheating. Did Prince Charming have a few other girls he was sleeping with while he was on the hunt for Cinderella? NO. Was Beast screwing some girl on the side while Belle was off enjoying the library that he gave her? NO. Let's even go with the example of Barney Stinson. Good ole Barney was the king of being a man-whore. He had a flipping playbook of moves he would use to get girls to sleep with him. He slept with so many women throughout the 9 seasons of How I Met Your Mother. But when Barney was with Robin, did he cheat on her? Did he have a "sidechick" while he was dating/married to Robin? NO! Why? Because he loved her.
Girls, please, if you think this is normal for your boyfriend to have sidechicks, please, run as fast as you can and get the hell away from that douche bag. Why? Because he doesn't really love you. This is not normal, this is not okay, and you deserve SO MUCH BETTER.
And for the guys - if you are one of those guys that thinks this is an acceptable way of life, you deserve to get hit by a bus. You should not EVER put a girl through this kind of crap. Do you really think karma won't come back and bite you in the ass? If you are one of these boys, you are a douche bag that should get his wang cut off.
Let's reverse the situation. If you're dating a girl, and you find out that this girl has been cheating on you with her side dudes, what are you going to do? Dump her, right? Because cheating is wrong! Why would you be with a girl who gives herself to other dudes? That's your girl! And she's giving all her goods to other guys. That's not okay! So why is it okay for you to do it?
And parents - BE A BETTER INFLUENCE. I know cheating is a lot more out in the open than it used to be, and many marriages have been ruined because of crap like this. But please, please, for the love of God, make sure your children know that cheating is a very bad thing to do.
And if you don't believe that this sidechick thing is a real thing, just google it. Better yet, google the "rules for being a sidechick". They exist. And it's sickening.
Love is special, love is one of the greatest things that humans experience, and this whole sidechick thing is ruining it. It's disgusting and sickening. Girls, if your man is involved in something like this, you're a damn idiot for sticking around. Go find someone who actually loves you, who dedicates 100% of his time to making you feel like a damn princess because that's how it should be.
And guys, keep your damn dick in your pants and get your crap straightened out. You're a disgusting human being if this is you.
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